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‘Just like us’: Singaporeans open hearts and homes to migrant workers

Eight families inspired to invite migrant workers over for a meal, after a CNA Insider series, discover a new level of appreciation for their guests.

‘Just like us’: Singaporeans open hearts and homes to migrant workers

Marlene Chua, 28 (extreme right) and her sister with their guests on June 17. "Hosting them is like having friends over," she said. "Migrant workers make up a huge part of our society and life, yet we know so little about them." (Photo: Marlene Chua)

SINGAPORE: Would you invite a few migrant workers over for dinner?

Over the past two weekends, eight of these families did just that, opening up their hearts and homes to the men who build Singapore’s roads and high-rises. The hosts ranged from Singaporeans of Bangladeshi descent, to non-Muslims who catered specially for their guests’ halal diet.

And the experience turned out to be more than either hosts or guests had imagined – and the start of hopefully lasting friendships for some.

A home-cooked meal by Farhana Hossain. (Photo: Ray Yeh)

At an iftar meal facilitated by CNA Insider on the last Sunday before Hari Raya Puasa, his wife Farhana Hossain cooked dishes like chicken biryani and beef tripe curry – a Bengali delicacy which their guests, Md Al Mamun, 26, and Md Shahabuddin, 30, appreciated.

The couple, who work at a local university and are of Bangladeshi extract, exchanged numbers with the men and said they would “love” to host them again in future.

Farhana Hossain (left) and her husband Tayef Quader (right) hosted migrant workers Md Al Mamun and Md Shahabuddin at their home in Chua Chu Kang. (Photo: Ray Yeh)

Over at the home of Mohammad Hamim and Fatimah Sawifi that same night, 32-year-old Shariful Islam was feeling emotional. The father of one was reminded of his daughter – an eight-year-old also named Fatimah – many times that night.

“I’m missing my mother, my wife, and my daughter Fatimah, I so miss, so miss,” he told CNA Insider, eyes welling up.

Together breaking fast, together praying, I feel my family here today. Today, I’m happy.  Thank you for this today.

Host Mr Hamim, 48, had only ever exchanged cursory greetings with migrant workers at the mosque before this. “Deep down inside we’ve always wanted to know more about them,” he said.

And learn more they did, chatting easily with their guests about family, religion, their experiences working abroad. “I was pleasantly surprised. We were able to connect at various levels,” said Mdm Fatimah.

It was so very enlightening, we were wondering what held us back (from talking to them) in the past – they are just like us, they have families, they have somewhat the same interests.

The couple, both teachers, gave the workers Hari Raya gifts, packed enough food for them for the rest of the week, and drove them back to their dormitory in Mandai.

At the home of Mohammad Hamim and Fatimah Sawifi. (Photo: Ruth Smalley)

(Read: 'My heart cries': Muslim migrant workers ache for family this Ramadan, and 'We need to take the first step': Giving migrant workers a taste of home away from home)


At this past Hari Raya weekend, CNA Insider collaborated with the volunteer-run Interfaith Youth Circle (IYC) and SDI Academy – a social enterprise that teaches English to migrant workers – to link host families up with more guests.

Among the Singaporean hosts was Marlene Chua, 28, a civil servant. She and her sister prepared rice and finger food, and got “a few types of curry” from an Indian-Muslim stall for a “simple and cosy” lunch.

They meant it as a gesture of appreciation for the workers, and a step “toward understanding them further”; and they ended up making new friends and learning more about Singapore from them. 

Such as how many durian trees there were at Mandai – “they volunteered to pick some for us”, Ms Chua laughed.

A guest introduces Ms Chua and friends to the sport of kabbadi with a video. (Photo: Marlene Chua)

Nicholas Yeo, 31, was another non-Muslim who made sure his guests were catered for, getting a Muslim friend to whip up a home-cooked spread.

“My wife, friends and I just set out to treat them like we would anyone else, and it was a great chance to get to know them better,” he said.

They learnt more about the struggles that migrant workers face in Singapore – but also found admiration for the volunteer work the men did, and “their dedication to improve themselves in spite of the limited free time they have”.

By having a safe and comfortable space, it really allowed us to speak with them as equals.

“And we were able to relate with one another over many common experiences, despite being so seemingly different," added Mr Yeo.

To facilitate the home visits at short notice, CNA Insider tied up with SDI Academy and the IYC, which was organising its fourth Singaporean Muslims for Eid initiative. The latter aims to involve different groups – like migrant workers and non-Muslims – in the Eid celebrations.

IYC co-founder Ms Noor Mastura said she hoped that people’s negative stereotypes of each other would be “shattered through their interactions over food and culture”. She also hoped participants would “become ambassadors to their own communities of what they learnt”.

Host Farah Anwar (extreme right) with husband and guests. (Photo: Farah Anwar)


Indeed, although one or two had initial nerves, the host families strongly urged more Singaporeans to reach out and invite migrant workers to a meal.

It would “give them the chance to feel part of a family… something many of us would want if we were in the same situation”, Mr Yeo said, adding that he would be glad to do this “on an annual or even more regular basis”.

Mr Liton, 40, might agree. The Bangladeshi, who was hosted by a couple to iftar, said: “We never felt like we were different here. We’re Muslim, they’re Muslim, we break fast together.”

"Hosting them is like having friends over," said Ms Chua. "Migrant workers make up a huge part of our society and life, and yet we know so little about them." 

The difficulty, Mr Hamim said, is: “I think Singaporeans are very open, but we don’t know how to go about reaching out. It’s very difficult to just go up to them and say ‘hello, what's going on’.”

But as some viewers have pointed out on Facebook, one can also do one’s bit where one can. Lynette Enoch posted: “I treat my Bangladeshi friends here to a meal now and then, or drinks due to the weather.”

Noraini Khodri-Siebley wrote that during Ramadan, she cooked an extra portion every weekend “for the Bangladeshi boy who cleans my block. He’s just like my son. Maybe he’s not comfortable sitting with my family... at least he would take his Iftar which we prepared.”

Read & watch CNA Insider’s Ramadan Diaries series:

'My heart cries': Muslim migrant workers ache for family this Ramadan

'We need to take the first step': Giving migrant workers a taste of home away from home

'It's a blessing': Why a millennial 'towkay' fasted with his Muslim migrant workers

A homecooked iftar meal. (Photo: Ruth Smalley)
Source: CNA/yv


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